Former Confidential Recovery Client Bill Shines in Video for Unshame California Video

A veteran and former client of Confidential Recovery who now works as a Veteran Peer Navigator at  Veterans Navigation Center recently appeared in a video for the Unshame California organization.

Unshame California is dedicated to reaching people who are in need of treatment for substance use but may be ashamed of that need. Veterans often fall into this category as they are guided to develop a "warrior ethos"  during their military service, which is characterized by fierce self-sufficiency. The warrior ethos  is at odds with accepting help for substance use disorder. However, as we have learned in recent decades, addiction is a disease of the mind, and does not get better without treatment. So the truly brave thing to do is to seek help if you have developed a substance use disorder (SUD).

Bill's Message: Hope Through Shared Experience

Bill believes deeply in the power of connection and sharing the burden with others. He knows firsthand that when people share their struggles, it creates hope for others facing similar challenges. His message is simple but profound: "You're not alone, and it's okay to ask for help." Bill actively fights the stereotypes that keep veterans from seeking support. His mantra: "If you're struggling, it's going to be okay. It's okay to get help."

Why Bill's Story Matters

Bill says his greatest life lesson was learning to love and forgive himself. That self-compassion is what enables him to authentically help others through their darkest moments.

Bill has walked the same difficult path as the veterans he now serves. He knows the pain, the hesitation to open up, and how hard it is to take that first step. But he also knows that with the right support and a team approach, healing is possible. His presence tells every veteran who walks through our doors: "I really do understand your pain—and there is a way forward."

Watch the video here:

Veterans in Southern California

If you know of a veteran in the San Diego area who is struggling with substance use, have them contact Confidential Recovery, where we provide outpatient drug rehabilitation for veterans, including telehealth options.  If they are struggling with a “non-crisis” mental health issue, or just having a hard time getting by in civilian life, look up the Veterans Navigation Center, which is a San Diego non-profit that has veteran navigators that can help veterans access benefits and programs to help them get by.